We moved to another state this summer. When you read that, what do think of? A moving truck, lots of boxes, house hunting? All pretty standard, right? I feel like our move has been so different, it deserves another label. We didn’t “move”. There was no moving truck, no boxes, none of the traditional “move” related experiences. We went voluntarily homeless for a couple months, that’s a lot more accurate.
We sold all of our furniture. We donated a good portion of our clothing. We got rid of any food we had left, perishable and non-perishable. We got rid of our cleaning supplies. Many pairs of shoes were donated. All our electronics were sold as well as our dishes, spices and silverware.
When we left Washington we had a 2004 Suburban with a spare, mismatched tire, another patched tire, our clothes, a couple pairs of shoes each, some toddler toys, a few blankets, our set of pots and pans and a few pictures and miscellaneous decorations. We had two nights booked in a hotel and no idea where we would go after those two days. Neither of us had jobs and only one of us had an unemployment income. We had three children under twelve with us and two more we had promised to fly to meet us in our new home that we didn’t have yet in a mere eight weeks.
Just reading that over myself, as the person who experienced it and made the conscious choice to do this, I think I must have been crazy. What person in their right mind would leave everyone they know and do something this drastic, with kids in tow no less?! Well, someone who was bored. Someone who wanted more and knew they could do it, given half a chance. Someone who had grown up in a small town and wanted OUT. Badly and immediately. That is the only explanation, and even I didn’t know I was *that* desperate.